Lena Chen

is a reluctant sexpert, a feminist and queer advocate, and a walking case study on bad publicity. As a Harvard undergrad, she authored the blog Sex and the Ivy about her college sexcapades and misadventures. Her reputation has never quite recovered. Want to give her a book deal, send her hate mail, or misquote her in an article? Read her daily musings at The Ch!cktionary and check out her full bio.

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There are a lot of myths about what sex can or can’t do for your relationship. One of the most long-standing is that having sex will bring you and your partner to a new emotional level. But what about that old adage about buying the cow when you can get the milk for free?

gURL reader vso92 wanted to know if sex would bring her partner closer…or not.

Watch my vlog above and tell me if you agree in the comments below! Do you think physical intimacy increases emotional intimacy?

And don’t forget to email me your questions, thoughts, rants, and desires at askanexpert@gurl.com!

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